Isn't this just the Fair Play method?

This draws heavily on Eve Rodsky's Fair Play framework, which introduced the CPE (Conceive-Plan-Execute) ownership model. We're applying the same principles with a focus on the system infrastructure (shared digital tools, automated reminders, visibility) that makes the ownership model sustainable long-term. Fair Play provides the philosophy; a shared family system provides the scaffolding.

What if my partner doesn't want to participate in this process?

Start small. Instead of the full domain audit, transfer one specific domain: "You own kids' soccer — the whole thing." One successful domain transfer often creates momentum for more. If your partner is resistant to any shared ownership, the issue may be relational rather than organi

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